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Thursday, 1 October 2009
Feeling and Doing
The gates are closing.
How are we feeling?
We’ve spent, I’ve spent, a lot of time over the last ten days talking about feelings, believings, internalities.
And that’s fine, but it’s not enough.
A story.
A colleague, a very successful Rabbi in New York, received a call from his long-since retired father, who had gone to live in Florida.
Avi, he said, I’m phoning to tell you I’m coming up to New York for Shabbas.’
‘Oh Abba,’ responds Avi, ‘That’s terrific, you know how much I love to see you.
I’ll arrange a cab to pick you up at the airport and bring you home and I’ll see you when I get back from the…
‘Avi’ the father interrupts, ‘I said I’m coming up to New York for Shabbas.’
‘I heard Abba, and you know how much I’ld love to come and pick you up from the airport, but, you see …
‘Avi, I said I’m coming up to New York for Shabbas.’
‘Abba, I love you, but I’ve got meetings and things I need to do and …’
‘Avi,’ the voice gets serious, ‘Avi, do me a favour, love me a little less, and pick me up from the airport.’
One of the great secrets of Jewish survival is our commitment to action.
Too much emphasis on feelings, emotions and intellectualisation is not our way.
Or at least has not been our way, until these past decades, a blink in the eye of Jewish time.
Something is happening, something is changing.
There are still many many of us who are proud enough to say that we ‘feel Jewish.’
That’s good. That’s a start.
But then, when one tests this emotion out, what does it mean, for this person – too often there is little there.
Too many of us think that Judaism can be achieved by feeling alone.
And it’s not true. Very little is accomplished by feeling alone.
A funny person who never tells jokes isn’t really funny.
A well-read person who never opens a book isn’t really well-read.
A charitable person who never gives away money isn’t really charitable.
And a Jewish person who does little more than feel Jewish, isn’t really Jewish.
There’s been a lot of press attention, this last year, on the admissions policy of JFS, the largest Jewish secondary school in the country and among the most successful of all secondary schools in the country. And my feelings on the old admissions policy at JFS are, I hope, well known. But the new policy is pretty good.
The new admissions policy for JFS does exactly what I would wish it to.
If you want to send your child to JFS, and if JFS is oversubscribed – and it’s always over-subscribed – admission will be made according to the number of points an applicant racks up. And you score points for coming to Synagogue, you score points for being involved in Jewish education and you score points for being involved in social action or charitable projects.
Now it makes more work for shuls that have to administer the policy and it’s a little simplistic, but I’ll forgive all that because the heart of the policy is sound, tremendously sound.
Because the test of Jewishness really should be more about our Jewish doing than our Jewish feeling.
I’m going to make three calls on our Jewish doing this evening.
I’m going to be even better behaved than that.
It’s party conference season, and before Rosh Hashanah 5771 there’s going to be a general election.
I’m going to start my campaigning here, for the New London Party.
And in this ‘party-political-broadcast-in-favour-of-more-Jewish-doing’ I’m presenting a budgetary surplus; a surplus of time and a surplus of money.
Vote for me, vote for us.
I’m putting three things on our manifesto – the first one is going to take up some of your time, but I’ll make it up to you, you can trust me, I’m a Rabbi.
We are launching a new series of adult education programmes this autumn, on Prayer. We offering classes on two levels.
The first is for those who look at the siddur and see an impenetrable mess; if you can’t understand the Hebrew and reading the English doesn’t help, if you feel you could do with sorting out the difference between Kiddush, kaddish and kedushah, if you’re continually having to check which page number you should be on – we have the perfect course for you. It’s called Siddur Sat-Nav and it does what it says on tin. It’s being taught by a wonderful educator; Rina Wolfson.
I know, because so many people have mentioned it to me, that it can be hard, that it can feel off-putting, but it’s not hard to come inside – and this is the course to do if you have ever wanted to do that.
And if you feel at home in the services, and understand their waft and weave; come to the other series; Chazan Stephen Cotsen, Chazan Jacky Chernett and I will be offering classes on some of our favourite prayers, we’ll be looking at meaning, history and music.
I promise these classes will transform your experience of prayer, of being part of a prayer community, of being part of this prayer community.
It will give you the tools to use the liturgy to do precisely what I was talking about on the second day of Rosh Hashanah – use the liturgy to experience real prayer.
There will be a five part series starting in November and another in January.
I’m asking for your time; to be here.
And I’ve promised a budgetary surplus, so let me suggest where you can get the time back.
Watch less television.
I’m not opposed to television, it’s not wrong or evil of anything like that.
There are, I know perfectly good and important things that happen on television
And we use it to pacify our kids when they are a little whiny, but that’s the point.
Television is the nation’s pacifier, our dummy.
As a nation we watch too much television. As a community we watch too much television, I am sure.
And in case you might be feeling that not watching television is insufficiently Jewish, I’ll grant extra points for not watching television over Shabbat – Yom Tov, the next two weekends for starters.
So, in the year to come I am asking this Jewish ‘do’
Spend less time watching and more time studying.
Spend less time being the consumer of pacifying, intellectual bubble-gum and more time being an engaged partner in our fabulously rich tradition.
Turn off the television and come to a class at the Synagogue.
Those are my first two calls.
And the second one is even better. It starts by saving you money.
I want to suggest that we use no money for the period of the Shabbat.
I’m not opposed to money.
It’s just, for the 25 hours between sun down Friday and stars out Saturday, I want to ask us all not to touch it.
Not to do cash, not to do cards, cheques, paypal, switch, maestro, nothing.
Just don’t buy anything for one day in the week – the Sabbath day.
Jews are not scared of money.
We are scared of poverty. Poverty is, says the Talmud, like death.[1]
Money, like television, isn’t bad, it isn’t the root of all evil.
Money’s necessary and can be a source of tremendous good.
But money, the ultimate material possession, can also blind us, it can confuse us.
A story – with a Jonah theme, for this early evening.
It was a hot day at the beach, Bessie Cohen was there with her three year old grandson.
She had bought him a cute little bathing costume with a cute little hat and she watched in delight as he played at the edge of the water.
Suddenly a great wave came up and swept onto the shore and before Bessie could move, it had swept the boy out to sea.
Bessie was frantic, ‘I know I’ve never been religious,’ she pleads, ‘but God, I’ll do anything, save my grandson.’
The child goes under the water for the first time.
Bessie cries become even sharper, ‘Dear God, save the boy, I’ll never ask anything of you again.’
The child goes under the water for a second time, Bessie is wailing and screaming for mercy.
Then suddenly a wave, another wave, and this one deposits the child on the shore.
The boy is shaken, but fine.
Bessie rushes over, picks him up, wraps him in a blanket, and carries him away from the sea. And then notices something.
She turns her head to the heavens and cries out again, ‘He had a hat’
This is the problem with money.
It blocks our engagement with the majesty of creation.
It colours our ability to see our own blessings.
If we think we are as rich, or as poor, as the value of those things money can buy, we have forgotten what is important to count in this world.
The promise of money, the promise of acquisition is that they will make our lives better.
The sorrow is that money seems, so often, only to trap us in a cycle of chasing after shadows and vanities.
So, how are we to get this balance right?
How are we to appreciate money, acquisition correctly, without it sucking the soul from our lives?
Sheshet yamim taavod vasitah kol malachtecha,
V’yom hashvii Shabbat ladonai eloheicha
For six days you shall work and the seventh is a day of Sabbath to Adonai your God.
Shabbat is the immunisation against the ways that money and acquisition can take over our lives.
For six days we should be involved in the real world of commerce and commercialisation.
And for one day we should step back, step away, step above – reach for a world of meaning.
If this is part of your weekly journey through life you get this already.
If you’ve never tried it, try it. Allow yourself to arrive at Saturday evening with only the things you had on Friday afternoon – you will feel freer, I promise.
And you will be richer.
There, a budgetary surplus.
Come to a class at New London.
Watch less television
Spend no money on Shabbat.
It’s a manifesto for those of us who feel the need for something a little concrete on a day like today.
And even for those of us who feel comfortable in ‘feeling Jewish’ without allowing our lived lives to reflect our emotions.
Watch less television – take a class at New London
Stop spending money on Shabbat.
And in this way may our sealing be for a year better, brighter, richer and sweeter than any we have known -
Gmar Hatimah Tovah
Friday, 8 May 2009
Shabbat matters
The heart of parashat emor is a journey through the Jewish sacred calendar. It is a journey built, of course it is, off the foundation of the Shabbat – ‘for six days you shall do work but the seventh day shall be a Sabbath of complete rest, a sacred occasion, you shall not work.’
A member of longstanding told me a new version of a tale I have heard a number of times about our founding Rabbi. They used to live near to Rabbi Jacobs and when the young-adult son was tinkering with his car on a Saturday as Rabbi Jacobs would be walking back from shul, Rabbi Jacobs would cross over the road and then cross back again in order not to walk past the ‘mahalel shabbat’ – the profaner of Shabbat – for fear of causing him embarrassment. The tale captures much of what was great about Rabbi Jacobs, but it also captures many of failures of our community these past forty-some years; concepts central to the Jewish tradition – growth, development, observance … were peripheral at best. Of course we don’t want to become a community of judgemental pedants, but if we turn a blind eye to every fracture of the fabric of Shabbat we lose the greatest treasure we, as Jews, possess. So what should a Rabbi of New London say when they see a phone being used in Shul, when they are passed by a congregant coming out of a shop on Shabbat? It’s easy to be patronising, it’s easy to be offensive, it’s easy to feel that, as a gate-keeper and evangelist for Jewish observance, the Rabbi should always duck and hide. But all these easy options are deeply flawed.
Maybe the answer lies in speaking more passionately about why the observance of Shabbat matters, even in 2009, especially in 2009. Let me share this from Heschel’s The Sabbath;
He who wants to enter the holiness of the day must first lay down the profanity of clattering commerce, of being yoked to toil. He must say farewell to manual work and learn to understand that the world has already been created and will survive without the help of man. Six days a week we wrestle with the world, wringing profit from the earth; on the Sabbath we especially care for the seed of eternity planted in the soul.
Or maybe the answer lies in my being clearer about what it might take, to become more serious about Shabbat. Let me share this recession busting, eco-friendly, soul-saving tip for Shabbat this week;
Turn things off; the computer, the mobile phone, the stereo, the rooter, the background buzz of electrical noise that suffuses our work lives. Just for a day, from half-past eight tonight to quarter to nine tomorrow. And listen to real people and yourself.
Shabbat shalom
Friday, 23 May 2008
Learn More Do More
Im bechokotai teilechu v’et mitzvotai tishmoru
If you go in the way of my ordinances and observe the commandments …
Says Rashi what is the difference between these two parts of the verse?
It cannot be that going in the way of ordinances is equated with observing commandments for the Torah does not repeat itself.
Rather it must mean that going in the way of the ordinances is study of Torah, immersing oneself in the texts of our tradition.
Im bechokotai teilechu v’et mitzvotai tishmoru
You shall study Torah and you shall observe mitzvot
My sermon today is very simple
Study more Torah,
Keep more mitzvot.
As a Masorti rabbi I don’t tend to lose arguments about theology.
As a Masorti rabbi I don’t tend to lose arguments about Biblical history
Rather it is tests of sociology which make me shuffle uneasily.
Let me share the sorts of questions to which I don’t have good answers
How many of the children of our founding families of this community have drifted away from Jewish involvement?
How many Masorti Jews are capable of being not just descendants, inheritors of a great tradition, but ancestors, people able to begat a Jewish future.
From this pulpit, for many years, week in week out we heard about philosophical integrity and theological truth.
But I don’t know how often we were told to keep Shabbat, keep Kashrut.
Learn to read Hebrew, learn to lead a service.
This community allowed us to feel comfortable , intellectually, with our Judaism, it didn’t, sufficiently, drive us to engage practically – bchol levavcha, bchol nafshecah, bchol moadecha.
It is not good enough to claim that our intellectual sophistication frees us from having to deal with issues as prosaic as separating between milk and meat.
Not good enough to claim elitist perfection.
When our actions are not consistent with our claims we discredit ourselves.
We give lie to our claims to be true followers in the path of our great teachers.
Tale: The Greatest epicorus in the world.
There are, of course, many tests of the strength of a community,
And according to some tests we do really very well – how much o we care about our shul.
How many of us are here, even today, Shabbat Bank Holiday.
How warm are we, etc. etc.
These are tests we pass.
But let me share some other tests
How many of us can read a Mishnah in Hebrew.
How many of us observe and care for a Shabbat that lasts from sun down to stars out.
How many of us can lead a prayer service.
How many of us make space for the rhythms and beauty of Jewish life to impact on our soul.
We need to
Study more Torah,
Keep more mitzvot.
I’m aware that this might feel like a somewhat unusual
It’s not about theology.
It’s not about an integration of modernity and tradition.
It’s about evangelising the heart of what it means to be Jewish.
Learn
Observe.
Let me take an example – driving on Shabbat.
I don’t believe in driving on Shabbat.
I believe that Shabbat is a time to pull the key out of the ignition.
It is a time to realise that the natural resources that go into our combustion engines are not ours to do with as we please.
They are sacred and while we may use them for six days, on the seventh we should abstain from treating the world and everything in it as if it is ours. For the earth is mine, ki li haaretz umleoah – sayeth the Lord.
One day week we should walk, one day a week we should allow our feet to touch the ground, to pound the pavement, to encounter a world free from air-conditioning and sliding windows that protect us from the elements at the flick of a switch.
It’s not enough to think about how clever the Rabbis were to come up with an idea like Shabbat.
It doesn’t work unless we live it.
Without a lived context Jewish observance is a fairy story that owes whatever ‘truth’ it can muster to a story about Sinai that none of us believes.
However once we start to live Jewishly, once we start to allow Shabbat into our lives not as a mere form of words, but as an organising principle, as a protection mechanism that holds back our hand when we see something and want to grab at it.
Once we allow Shabbat in, then we become capable of feeling the power of our faith, a power that has nothing to do with whether or not this sentence of that sentence came from Sinai or later or earlier moments of revelation.
There are two canards, perhaps, which serve as barriers to our allowing Shabbat in, allowing Jewish life in.
They both need addressing and rebutting.
The first is the idea that Jewish observance is an all or nothing relationship and that a person exploring, seeking, playing at observance is therefore a hypocrite.
This idea, as often as I have heard it, is nonsense.
No-one has ever successfully completed even a moment’s life being fully observant. Just the demand that we should love our neighbour as we love ourselves is or should be enough to elevate observance away from such a narrow ‘box-checking’ approach.
Don’t ever let that hobgoblin of little minds – an appeal for consistency – rob you of the possibility of journey, of development, of exploring, of growing.
The second canard is the notion that we don’t believe that observance, particularly the uniquely Jewish forms of observance, could possibly matter, to God, to this world, to anyone.
How could it be, we imagine that God cares about the way we put on our tefilin, or whether or not we light candles, make Kiddush or havdalah?
It’s a particularly non-Jewish view of the role and nature of the human.
Contemporary society may well tell us most clearly that we are merely one tiny cog and that therefore nothing we do matters so much.
But religion teaches an entirely different message.
Judaism teaches that everything matters.
This, indeed is the very essence of faith – we do indeed believe that God counts. We believe that everything we do, every word we utter, every item of clothing we put on, it all counts.
The anthropologist Loren Eisley tells a story about a man walking on the beach one morning when he notices another person picking up a starfish stranded by the retreating tide. He went up to him and asked why he was doing it. The person replied that the starfish would die if left out in the morning sun. ‘But’ the man replied, ‘this is a
‘To this one,’ the person responded, ‘it makes a difference.’
Whether or not our actions count or not depends on our perspective. We can, if we wish, instil in our souls a lack of significance. We can teach ourselves that nothing we do matters that much really.
But I have no idea why we would ever do such a thing.
Why would we ever give up on an appeal to eternity.
What is man that you are mindful of him?
We ask at the beginning of the Yizkor service – yet you have made him only a little lower than angels.
By believing that our actions count, that everything counts we being to invest our lives with significance, meaning, dignity – we become worth the gift of our souls.
Ah, this is getting a little airy fairy again – an appeal to the intellect, to reason.
It’s getting a little distant from my very clear message this morning.
Learn
Do.
Let me instead make two very concrete suggestions.
One – watch the skies.
Tonight, between eleven and twelve minutes past 10 o’clock you might be able to see three stars emerge into the night sky.
This, of course marks the departure of Shabbat.
Celebrate this with something. If you want to light a candle, smell some spices, say a bracha or four, by all means.
But do something. Do something to mark a return to normality, find some way to make your late Saturday evening different from these powerful moments of Shabbat we now share together.
And the second is this.
Next week – try not to carry.
Carrying on Shabbat is perhaps the single most overlooked command regarding the Shabbat day and, at least in my own experience, the single greatest marker of this special day.
During the week I jangle; my keys, my wallet, my phone, my backpack, my computer.
On Shabbat I don’t.
Vayinafash
It’s such a relief.
They aren’t needed, let them go.
I want to offer this.
Next week unpack your pockets before Shabbat.
Don’t bring your phone, don’t bring the wallet, don’t bring the detritus of a week’s accumulation in your handbag. If there really is something that you just can’t do without, OK.
But challenge yourself to see how much schlepping around you really need to do.
It will be less than you think and you will feel freer for it.
Allow these echoes of eternity an opportunity to resonate against your soul.
Allow these observances to do their work, to make you more observant, allow them to give you a clearer insight into who you are and what really is important in your life.
The Shabbat, indeed the entire system of Jewish life is method of finding meaning in life, in our relationship in our God, our fellows and our people.
It is also the answer to the greatest challenges that can be applied to us, as members of the
It is our answer to the greatest epicorus in the world.
It saves us from becoming dislocated from the truth of our tradition, a truth that not only needs to be philosophically grasped, but performed and learnt.
Im bechokotai teilechu v’et mitzvotai tishmoru
Shabbat shalom

